You talk bad about your ex

It is quite logical that your (potential) partner wants you to be over your ex. However, constantly talking badly about him is not the most elegant way to clarify this. If your ex is always (negatively) the topic of conversation, it shows, on the one hand, that you are probably still fixated on him. On the other hand, this quirk casts a bad light on your character. Men quickly think you are spiteful and childish - and bitchy to boot. If the subject of ex-partners comes up, keep it short and stay positive! Leave the past in the past and rather look forward to the future.