The small attempts at change

If the partnership continues, the next phase is that one wants to change the other, or both want to change each other to get the perfect partner. This happens far too rarely in the form of the openly formulated wish and much more often as a more or less subtle attempt to convince the partner of one's own opinion and to get him to act differently in the future. Anger arises, and sometimes there are open power struggles.

Typical phrase: "Better do it differently."